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Monday, May 13, 2013

From a Mother to Her Son, on Mother's Day

Only a child can take a woman and turn her into a mother.

Our children are the tuning forks of our lives--that perfect pitch of reason housed in a world of superlatives where what is good is awesome fantastic amazing and great; what is bad is pitch black dark and awful. They shake us from our monotonous trance and force us to bridge for them that divide between all that they see as great and awful; bridge for them that divide between who we were before they came into our lives and who we are meant to become as a result of their indelible touch.  My ten-year old son Jack came into this world a year behind his sister who was diagnosed with autism days after his arrival. From infancy, his world was invaded by a house filled with rotating therapists--speech, physical, occupational, behavioral--seven …

Darlene

5:09 pm on Monday, May 13, 2013

This article should be marked "NSFW" as I can't seem to get through it without bawling my eyes out! Beautifully written - both your words and your sons words.   more ›

Sunday, April 7, 2013

Letter: Freeholder Calls Consultant's Offer to Bergen Community 'Disturbing'

County executive's former campaign manager offers free public relations help to Bergen Community College.

The decision by Alan Marcus and The Marcus Group to withdraw their $90,000 contract with Bergen Community College was the appropriate course of action given the County Executive’s past practice of weeding out unnecessary and wasteful spending.  However the decision by Mr. Marcus to offer “free” consultation services regarding upcoming labor negotiations is equally disturbing. When does a public agency or in this case a county school board take collective bargaining tips from a public relations executive? Doesn’t Bergen Community College have on retainer legal counsel to handle such matters? The withdrawal of this contract does not cause harm to the institution as suggested, but it saves taxpayers $90,000 on something that wasn’t needed or …

delgado

10:06 pm on Saturday, April 27, 2013

the bergen Republicans need to answer why this happened. This is clearly criminal. Bergen Republicans have let down Bergen.   more ›

Friday, April 5, 2013

Letter to the Editor: SOD Invites Residents to Open Meeting

SOD will host a public meeting on April 10 for all New Milford and River Dell residents

On Wednesday, April 10, SOD will be holding an open meeting and invites all interested New Milford and Oradell residents to attend. The meeting is scheduled for 7:00 pm at the Senior Center on River Road.   At that time we will be recapping the Board of Adjustment Hearings on granting variances to develop the United Water property.  The Executive Board will discuss strategies for the final portion of the hearings.  The public can now present its case to the Board and then the hearing will be open for comments from the public.  Those residents who have been following the developments but have been unable to attend the Board meetings are welcome to come and participate on the 10th.  With the end in sight it is imperative that we present a …

Nick Besink

6:17 pm on Saturday, April 6, 2013

Please keep me in the loop for all that is going on; From hearing dates to SOD happenings. I have been recording the Board meeting when I can, but can use a little help with this. I am the chairman of OPTV in Oradell and have been airing the public meetings when I can on OPTV. Any correspondence can be e-mailed to OPTV@oradell.org or OPTV@aol.com Nick Besink   more ›

Tuesday, March 26, 2013

Wagner Says Municipal Alliance Would Benefit All Communities

Paramus' Connie Wagner, state assemblywoman, says the work of the municipal alliance is proven to help local communities tackle issues, such as prescription drug addiction.

Every day we seem to hear of another senseless death of a 20-something in our local communities. Many of the communities in my District, the 38th District, have a, “Municipal Alliance,” that is working to combat issues like this as well as many others.  The members of the alliance are people who are on the ground providing each other with the pulse of their communities in order to provide positive fun activities with a message. The Municipal Alliance fosters a positive message of self-esteem and fun while informing each other of the dangers drugs pose for our communities, while also suggesting policies through discussion.    The Municipal Alliance that I am a part of in Paramus has come up with various solutions to the problems that exist…

GoHawks123

11:58 am on Thursday, March 28, 2013

I really don't think DARE is a waste of money. My son initiates discussions about drugs and alcohol because of the program. Because of this education kids realize that staying away from drugs is a valid option, I agree with adding the rec programs to keep kids off the street.   more ›

Monday, March 18, 2013

Colucci Supports Polizzi's Stance on Hekemian Project

Councilman Dominic Colucci responds in favor of Superintendent Michael Polizzi's letter to the Zoning Board of Adjustment

Superintendent Polizzi has editorialized his and the Board of Education’s opinion regarding the United Water property that is adjacent to the New Milford High School. I believe that action needs to be taken on the development of that property. Although, for now, the council members are not “players” in the decision making of what goes there, we are reaching to the center where compromise is key. We are in agreement with his concept of eliminating the housing component and we approve some commercial development on the United Water Property. For two years I, along with Councilman Robalino have thought this to be the best possible plan for New Milford thus being the best plan for our schools.  A multi-purpose field is of the upmost necessity …

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new milford dad of 3

6:46 pm on Sunday, March 24, 2013

Ulises for councilman.You are a fighter keepup the good work.   more ›

Friday, February 22, 2013

Assembly Votes to Approve Gun Package Bills Aimed at Curbing Gun Violence

Taken together these bills are part of a comprehensive approach for firearm safety.

By Robert V. Tessaro The New Jersey Assembly voted Thursday to approve a wide-ranging package of 22 bills aimed at curbing gun violence. Taken together these bills are part of a comprehensive approach for firearm safety, including mandatory background checks on all private firearm sales, removing firearms from the dangerously mentally ill, banning high capacity magazines that hold more than 10 bullets, establishing weapon-free zones near schools, requiring ammunition to be purchased in person and not anonymously online, and requiring firearm safety training for gun owners. None of these bills will prevent law-abiding citizens from owning a firearm, and the Senate should follow suit and set a date for hearings and a vote as soon as possible…

Joe LoPorto

10:31 am on Sunday, February 24, 2013

Who said anything about the 2nd Amendment having anything to do with personal protection and duck hunting??? This collection of laws are overreaching, in violation of the 2nd Amendment, and will be ineffective. But if the stupid masses in this state need another security blanket so they can go back to their sucking their thumbs, have at it. You can't legislate away crazy. In the meantime, we are …   more ›

Tuesday, February 19, 2013

Letter to the Editor: For the Kids

Former Council President and current member of SOD reminds New Milford that the fight against development is for the kids.

FOR THE KIDS!  The rallying cry "FOR THE KIDS" has motivated New Milford residents to seemingly do the impossible and make it routine. Thirty years ago, when we moved into town, I was so impressed with the sense of community that I felt here in New Milford, it was palpable. You felt it everywhere--a feeling of place, a feeling of being part of something much bigger than just yourself. When my children started to participate in Little League,soft ball, Junior Football, cheerleading, it was bigger than life. Men and woman volunteers, from all backgrounds, all ages, some home grown, others from different times and places, all coming together for the kids.    Just take a moment and think about what it takes to organize all the activities, …

Cranky Fake

9:50 am on Friday, February 22, 2013

Ulises, save your breath, it is not worth the effort. Adam claims to be an attorney that lives near the river and whose house was flooded previously. He is for the lowering of the reservoirs as a storm approaches (potentially hurting the majority of people if the rain does not come), but in favor of this development next to the river that floods his and his neighbor’s homes? He calls the united …   more ›

Saturday, February 16, 2013

Memories of Palisades Amusement Park: An Editor in Search of a Crown

A fire may have destroyed an iconic amusement park and the hopes of this editor every being crowned 'Little Miss America'--but the dream lives on.

Seems April skies are in her eyes, A living doll that talks smiling as she walks. May she stay somehow sweet as she is now.  Little Miss America take a bow. -Gladys Shelley I have such fond memories of Palisades Amusement Park—Casper’s Ghostland, the Caterpillar ride, the Fun House, the Archie Hot Rod ride, the French fries with vinegar, the games-of-chance, Cousin Brucie...but there are two moments that stand out most.  The first is Bozo the Clown, my hero, bending down as I sat in my stroller, his soft white-gloved hand tickling my chin. I think I nearly lost consciousness when he told me with his trademark zany laugh that he loved my red hair. Come on--name one man today who surrounds himself with children, has a red nose and big feet …

Darlene

10:40 am on Monday, February 18, 2013

Ay yi yi. Even comments on the most innocent of posts have to devolve into this. Whatever. Having grown up in the San Francisco Bay area, I have no memories of the park itself, but I feel like I experienced it a tiny bit by way of the Freddy "Boom Boom" Cannon tune, "Palisades Park". Love that song!!!   more ›

Monday, February 11, 2013

Op-Ed: Towns Should Dictate Blue Laws

Blue Laws 'handicap' local businesses, writes Teaneck councilman and former mayor

The following op-ed was submitted by Elie Y. Katz, a council member and former Teaneck mayor.    Ah yes, the Blue Laws. When I was Mayor of Teaneck, at the request of many Teaneck residents, I briefly touched the third rail of this "taboo" subject by looking into a referendum question for Teaneck voters. It was not the harsh phone call from the Paramus Borough Attorney, nor the legal threats from mall operators outside Bergen County nor the concern from many husbands about their wives getting an extra day of shopping that made the Council withdraw the question.  Rather, it was the fact that we were not legally permitted to offer a referendum question on a law which the state controls. It seems a little strange that in a country which …

TSDK

2:10 am on Sunday, March 24, 2013

I've lived in Bergen County since 1976 except for 7 years when I went to college and stayed by there for a little while after. What would be really awesome is if you want to make a point with "facts"- make sure your facts are correct. 99% of Paramus residents came AFTER the town was built up with all the malls?? Really? And the Plaza borders Maywood & Rochelle Park where the traffic is RIDICULOUS…   more ›

Thursday, February 7, 2013

Ashley Responds to Grant's Lawsuit Seeking to Invalidate Borough Attorney's Appointment

Ashley responds to Grant's lawsuit naming him as one of the defendants in her claim seeking to invalidate the appointment of Leibman as Borough Attorney.

Editor's note: In response to Councilwoman Hedy Grant's lawsuit naming him as a defendant in her claim petitioning the court to invalidate the appointment of Borough Attorney, Marc Leibman, of the law firm Kaufman, Semeraro, Bern, Deutsch & Leibman, Councilman Austin Ashley has issued the following statement:   We are in desperate need of leadership that isn't motivated by political bossism. That is why, this January I voted with the New Milford Republicans to appoint a Borough Attorney that is qualified to represent the borough on all fronts. That has not gone over well with the current Democratic political organization and frankly, I don't care. Each council person is sworn into office on the Holy Bible and swears to uphold the …

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Jimmy Drake

6:53 pm on Monday, February 11, 2013

do me a favor dad? Please tell them you are not me and I am not you? thanks.   more ›

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